Tag: flowers
yello
last week: roca, nebraska
last week was my first time
without a job (since september).
matt had spring break
and we left for
our old home.
my expectations
of course
were
wambasted
(a word here that means: blown out of the water, as usual).
we were busier
than i had intended.
i have always struggled with
that problem
affiliating break with relaxation
nothing
being absolutely lazy.
just never happens.
(i need to start stifling that pipe dream).
anyhow.
the week was different
more meaningful
in ways
i could not have imagined.
God created space for me to see
the lovely women
replacing mis pequeñas hermanas lindas.
nights.
so late
the clock hands reaching upwards
ma falling asleep on the couch
tata in bed.
the living room so warm
bodies draped
in pleasant, tired heaps
emitting whispers
and loud laughs.
my mind just gaped
not acquainted with
these new forms:
of woman.
my spirit felt blessings
trickling in
to reservoirs tucked
away
unused.
but brimming now
with an air of wonder
at these lovely
creatures stirring
at the feet of womanhood.
lights shown from
their eyes
and music from their lips
that i drank
hungrily–
excited with
the prospects
of new friends
never leaving
yellow roses
so, this whole friend business is hard. it’s been a while since i have had someone i could call a best-ie (not counting that guy who lives here and garbles my food). not that i want a best-ie, since i feel that term is slightly prone to high school gals running around. but the term “bosom friend” (a term coined my the infamous anne shirley) is a phrase that sounds not too bad, something i would not mind.
anyhow, i had just been thinking in my nyquil drenched state of mind (due to a horrible cold) that community is tough. and friendships are tough. and maybe it just wasn’t worth the time to find/pursue a close woman friend. i feel slightly primal when it comes to close relationships (outside of my family and marriage). i don’t mean i cannot talk or interact with people, but to form a deeper relationship, i feel out of touch.
anyhow, God decided to help me out with my pitifulness and give me a head start on the friend track. there was a knock on the door last night. matt and i both thought the other had caused the noise to which i chided him to check the front door. outside, was a lovely care package from a new friend of mine: yellow roses (they’re so happy!), goldfish crackers (some of my fav and how did she know?!), mangos (my favorite fruit!), oj (every sick person needs some), some thai soups (delicious!) and a lovely card.
upon calling the before said lady, i thanked her and she said she knew how hard it was being sick without your mother. i cried and realized God was opening an opportunity for me to have a new and precious friend. praise jesus. he is so good.